Helen Hearts

shopping to-do's

2012-01-28T20:57:00.001-05:00

Happy weekend friends. I'm taking it easy and have no big plans, except for some dinner & brunch with friends. (You know I love to eat :) I'm also keeping a mental tally to look out for the following things to add to my closet...

An artsy, show-stopper skirt (to pair with my closet full of basics)

Something yellow... one of my favorite colors and yet I think I only have one yellow thing in my closet. (And I gave the other one, a yellow striped cardigan, to my sister. Sad.)

(Photos via 1, 2, 3, 4)

barack & michelle

2012-01-26T20:28:00.003-05:00

I found this wonderful story of the Obamas on Facebook and would love to share... It made me smile from ear to ear! :)

"One night President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of routine and go for a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn't too luxurious. When they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the President's secret service if he could please speak to the First Lady in private. They obliged and Michelle had a conversation with the owner. Following this conversation President Obama asked Michelle, why was he so interested in talking to you. She mentioned that in her teenage years, he had been madly in love with her. President Obama then said, "so if you had married him, you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant", to which Michelle responded, "no, if I had married him, he would now be the President."

Michelle is my kind of woman for sure!

sh*t fashion girls say (hilarious!)

2012-01-25T17:52:00.000-05:00

I've been sending everyone these laugh out loud funny videos -- and the bloopers are amazing too. LOVE.

I love them, I hate them: earrings

2012-01-24T16:02:00.015-05:00

Earrings. I have a love-hate relationship with them. I like how they look -- just not on me. (I tend to wear my hair down, so what's the point anyway?) I've had my ears pierced twice already because of my erratic mixed emotions... and lo & behold, they are growing out again because, well, I never wear earrings! Lately though, I'm catching myself admiring a pair of delicate studs, here and there. They're starting to look chic and effortless... Here we go again!

These sterling silver arrows earrings are unbelievably cute. (via etsy)

XO Studs, a kiss and hug for your ears. (via BHLDN)

Quirky ampersand studs. How deliciously nerdy. (via Catbird)

Should I? What's your take on earrings?

4 steps to fight the winter blues

2012-01-22T16:35:00.004-05:00

Phew, there is nothing like being sick for a week to make you feel like a helpless little baby again. You go to bed super early and subsist on a diet of liquids! I basically drank soup & ginger tea and slept all week. Hello, instant rejuvenation! A few simple ideas to help fight the winter blues...

Step 1: Settle into a comfy and warm place.

For me, that would be my bed or our super cozy papasan chair.

Step 2: Get thyself a cute mug or bowl.

I just bought this cats mug from Fishs Eddy for my friend Amy, who is a new mom to her kitty Mona. Such an instant cheerer upper!

As for bowls, my roommate Alex and I love the ergonomic design of these Buddha Bowls.

Step 3: Help yourself to your favorite soup.
This graupensuppe (German barley soup) looks delicious and is a great source of fiber. (And a mushroom barley soup sounds great too. I love barley, clearly.)

Step 4: Hot beverages are your new best friend.
I like ginger tea (and if I'm desperate, hot water boiled with pieces of ginger) because it relieves the sinuses. But for something a little more fun, a hot toddy is a classic choice. (Whisky, honey, hot water, and lemon juice.... so delicious.)

Are you feeling cozy yet? Winter's got nothing on this!

(photos via 1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

boston weekend

2012-01-18T21:26:00.029-05:00

Hey friends! I'm currently suffering from a terrible cold from this weekend (It was freezing in Boston!) but still had such a great time and wanted to fill you in! If we're facebook pals, then you'll probably be seeing some repeats ... but here are a few highlights from our long weekend trip.

My good friend Justin and I arrived in South Station, Boston on late Friday afternoon and got picked up in Steph's new car (which was weirdly thrilling. A car! A small luxury to my pedestrian NY lifestyle.)

After dropping our stuff at Steph's place, we headed to Beacon Hill, a cute boutique-lined neighborhood and grabbed an early dinner at The Upper Crust Pizzeria. We had a 1/2 "Uncommon" pizza and 1/2 "Beacon Hill." It was delicious.

It didn't take long before we decided that it was too cold to stay outside, so we huddled inside Quincy Market and admired all the food stands. Clam chowder, candied apples galore!

Later, we ventured into the North End to a street that is essentially the Little Italy of Boston. Steph's favorite dessert place is the Modern Pastry Shop, so we each had a perfect, tasty cannoli. I was so touched because after a great conversation with the owner, he gave me mine for free!

Steph's coworker from Trip Advisor was throwing a birthday house party, so Justin (our resident bartender) made some amazing drinks before we headed out.

The next day, we headed over to Anna's Taqueria for Jarritos and burritos. It was so much better than Chipotle! (And equally as delicious as NY's Dos Toro's.) I inadvertently flirted with a cute MIT frat boy (or so we presumed).... by accidentally elbowing him and making him drop his utensils. ;)

We met up with Tiffany, another NYU friend, and all headed over to the South End to visit Tiffany's brother Larry, who lives in a modern & spacious studio while studying graphic design at Northeastern. I loved his space... it even had a fireplace! (Swoon.)

Later, we walked through Newbury St and stopped for coffee at L'Aroma Cafe. It was so frigid, my gloved hands felt blue. Boston doesn't kid around with it's under 17 degree (Fahrenheit) weather! I took my time sipping a large bowl of hazelnut hot cocoa.

Cold temperatures just make me want to pig out. Good thing we went to Giacomo's for some hearty Italian. I had this incredibly rich gnocchi filled with roasted red peppers & goat cheese, served with chicken, mushroom, spinach, and mascarpone plum. Also, did you know that happy hour is illegal in Boston?! We actually ended up drinking wine in our parked car before dinner to warm up!

The next morning on our last day, we grabbed sticky buns at Flour Bakery + Cafe, which many friends have recommended. I took a super tasty bite and saved the rest for this week-- the portion size was gigantic and I wanted to savor every cinnamon-y crumb.

In our last few hours, we met up with Mackenzie (my friend from our L'Oreal internship) at Harvard for brunch. She graciously gave us a tour of the campus, even though it was so cold, she was actually tearing up. (That's a good friend.)

Thank you Steph for hosting us in your wonderful new home town. We miss you here in NY!

books, books, books!

2012-01-15T11:30:00.008-05:00

Hello from Boston! Justin and I are visiting our friend Steph, and we are having a little NYU reunion! Steph works at Trip Advisor and has been the best host -- I can't wait to show you some pictures of the trip later. Right now, I'm sneaking in a blog post while they're getting ready before we leave for brunch. A few book-related things that have been on my mind...

I'm half-way through reading Diane Keaton's autobiography and I'm LOVING it! I bought it for myself for Christmas, and definitely recommend it.

Still have to decorate my living room (and on a budget), and this book seems like the perfect solution. On my wish list!

Have you heard of the tumblr Bookshelf Porn? It's a collection of the best bookshelf photos and I am in ecstasy. (The same reaction as that scene from Beauty & The Beast when the beast shows Belle his library. You know?)

I re-read this essay, "Date a Girl who Reads"-- it's so sweet and has been reblogged a billion times. But worth mentioning again :)

PS: Coincidentally, Justin & Steph bought me books for my birthday last April. They know me too well.

(photos via 1, 2, 3, 4)

what a wonderful thought

2012-01-11T22:25:00.001-05:00

"I think you could fall in love with anyone if you saw the parts of them that no one else gets to see. Like if you followed them around invisibly for a day and you saw them crying in their bed at night or singing to themselves as they make a sandwich or even just walking along the street and even if they were really weird and had no friends at school, I think after seeing them at their most vulnerable you wouldn’t be able to help falling in love with them. ” (Unknown)

Would you agree? (I love that photo of Serge Gainsbourg and Jane Birkin up top, btw :)

(photos via 1, 2)

weekly recap, instagrammed

2012-01-09T19:41:00.009-05:00

I thought my first week back from Christmas break (I returned to New York on the 2nd) would be rough, but it was surprisingly low-key and relaxing. I played gym catchup and grocery shopped, with some fun bits in between. Here are a few moments from my week!

While catching up with Eunsan at The Bean, I couldn't help watching the chess game going on next to us between two older hipster dudes. (It was such an East Village moment :)

A "croquette" hot dog dinner at (newly opened) Japadog in St. Mark's. Tasty, but it's got competition.

And by competition, I mean Crif Dog (!) my favorite hotdog place. They're so eccentric, they even branded the potted tree above.

Working on my brand (essie) with my nails painted in 'mango jango,' a pretty orangey red

Someone left yogi tea bags on my desk, and I'm so grateful to them for both the tea and the nice message it came with

On the weekend, a tasty long island iced tea with friends at B Bar

Another bar stop: this place 2A screens movies against the wall. More for aesthetics than anything else (since you can't hear the dialogue), but still cool.

After a night of dancing at the Soho Grand (with my fashionable friend Andrea who works in Philip Lim press), brunch on Sunday at Cafe Mogadore with Dan and Marc.

Here's to another week of appreciating the details in life - big and small. Have a good one xo.

cheeky kate spade tote bags

2012-01-08T15:18:00.005-05:00

Ah-dor-able. So on brand strategy. And so fun! (And the leather trimmed canvas material looks casual but still chic. Awesome!) Find them here and here.

6 resolutions to make (and not break!)

2012-01-03T22:24:00.008-05:00

My resolutions for 2012 are going to be as doable, simple, and fun as possible. I just want to do things that make me happy! (Now that's all the reason we need, right? :) So without further ado, I'm committed in the next year to these 6 resolutions:

1. Plan more trips (to visit friends, to see new places)

2. Host more soirees (from dinner parties to just hangin' out)

3. Buy more flowers ('cause they'll brighten up the dullest day)

4. Go to bed earlier (and feel 100x better, always)

5. Take more photos (and take in new perspectives)

6. Take more risks (because 99% of the time, they're worth it)

(photos via 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)

HAPPY 2012!! A look back at 2011...

2012-01-01T18:09:00.028-05:00

Happy New Year!! I rang in 2012 in my hometown (Philly suburbs) with my best high school friends and a sparkly dress. Apart from lots of dancing, it was nicely low key. How was your new year's eve?

I'm already feeling chummy with 2012, but I have to acknowledge that 2011 was very, very good to me. This was the year that I graduated from NYU and started work full-time in brand marketing at L'Oreal. 2011 was a transition year, but also super liberating and fun. Here's a recap, if you'd like to see....

January marked my 4th year as a New Yorker, and I began to feel really confident about my place in the city.

In February, I threw a Chinese New Year party and celebrated my friend Liz's trader's trophy win. It was a chilly month, so I also spent a lot of time in the Pop Up Park, my favorite winter retreat :)

In March, I hung out in neighborhood coffee shops and went to see the Norman Rockwell exhibit at the Brooklyn Museum. I also visited California for the first time (Newport Beach to be exact) for spring break!

April was the best month EVER. My friends & I won a national business competition for Dannon (which included making this goofy video) and went to Paris for a week, for free. I also turned twenty-two the day before the Royal Wedding.

May meant going to the Hester Street Fair, Alexander McQueen "Savage Beauty" exhibit and a little thing called COLLEGE GRADUATION!! (Officially a real person now, whoo!)

In June, I went to my first blogger meetup in Brooklyn and became an avid fan of the online decor magazine phenomenon.

July was a crazy month. We went on family vacation in Prague/Berlin/Vienna for 2 wks (an amazing trip that I still need to post pics up of!), and I started asking people for their summer to-do lists.

In August, I showed off my new East Village apartment, ate fancy donuts at the Brooklyn Flea, and shared my favorite entrepreneurship books.

September was so work-busy, I turned to my comforts: Chinese food and nature. I also asked my high school girlfriends for their autumn to-do list.

October included a girl's brunch back in Philly, a guest post by Mary Kate, and TWO costumes for Halloween.

In November, I went to the Quidditch World Cup, which blew my mind. Then I went home to a yummy Thanksgiving.

And finally, in December, I was more of a foodie than usual and put together 3 Holiday Gift Guides for Christmas!

Phew! It's so amazing looking back at these little details which made this 2011 a year full of rich memories. I don't blog about my personal life very much, so I'm especially glad I have these posts to remember the year by. Life is full of ups and downs, but I'm always reminded that for every sick week or heart break, there's a great big surprise (like a free trip to Paris!) just around the corner! That's how life works! No matter how many lemons get thrown at me, I'll always be swimming in lemonade, and I'm thankful. I'm also honored to have sponsored 5 giveaways this year and honored to have such sweet readers like you.

Now tell me all about YOUR 2011! And if you like, feel free to check out my recaps of 2010 and 2009. Have a great 2012 my dears! Take it by the balls! :)

spectacular photo media prints

2011-12-29T01:28:00.005-05:00

In my dreams, these prints by Australian photo-media artist Liesl Pfeffer would be hanging on my in-progress art wall. But they make lovely DIY inspirations. Maybe I'll attempt my own collaged photos in cool shapes? I'm itching to try!

(via down and out chic, by Liesl Pfeffer 1, 2)

happy holidays!

2011-12-27T04:00:00.011-05:00

Happy holidays my friends! Hope you're enjoying time with loved ones! I'm at home in Philly on Christmas break, and loving every second of it! Wanted to share a some hilarious holiday cartoons by the super-talented Gemma Corell :)

I could look at Gemma's blog for hours! I love kitty kats :)

(cartoons by Gemma Correll)

Last Minute Gift Guide ( No Budget!) for your Special Someones

2011-12-20T13:35:00.019-05:00

It's crunch time, guys! I have been so bad at buying gifts for everyone... Need to FOCUS, pronto! Here are a few last minute ideas, with no particular budget. I hope you enjoyed my gift guides for 2011. Happy holidays!

A great book for your printmaking friend who aspires to own a studio one day, $10.48

Hidden animal mugs for your honorary older sister who just moved into her own apartment, $21 each

For your beauty guru roommate: a 12 month subscription to Birchbox, $110

A home decor book (450 pages of pictures!) for your constantly decorating mother, $10.96

Cute floral undies for your growing-up-too-fast 14 year old sister, $3-5 with 70% off at Gap

Recycled wine bottle platters for your friend who always brings the best stinky cheese to parties, $18 each

Kiehls Creme de Corps (the best body moisturizer in the world) for your fellowship group, $29 for 8.4 fl. oz. bottle

And lastly, a classic and timeless Swatch watch for your Father who's always got your back, $175 with 2-year warrenty; $126 without warrenty.

PS: Previous gift guides for guys and girls. xoxo

10 days of food, 10 instagrams

2011-12-19T22:28:00.019-05:00

I'm a little sheepish to admit this, but I pretty much spend all of my money on food. Going out to eat is my favorite thing to do in the city, and I've instagramed a few photos from the past ten days (2 weeks and 6 weekdays) to show for it ;)

Yesterday's scrumptious brunch at Cafe Orlin with Dan and Makobe.

Saturday's Butterlane cupcake class with Eunsun. I made these! (I even learned how to make frosting from scratch & how to properly frost cupcakes!)

Venezuelan dinner tonight at Caracas Arepa Bar with Eunsun, Tina, and Andrea

Coffee & macaron break with Danny at The Bean.

Shopping break with Justin: we had our first taste of Mash... I mean, ambrosia in a bottle.

At the L'Oreal year-end event... there was a ton of dessert, which made me happy. :)

It was held at the Marriot Marquis hotel, which had a great view of Times Square

After the event, coworkers and I enjoyed some pear bellinis (open bar at work = dangerous! :)

Mousse dessert with Jen at The Mermaid Inn

Fresh brew served inside one of my favorite winter destinations, The Open House Gallery Pop-up Park

Under $30 Gift Guide: for your sweet, goofy best guy friends

2011-12-15T17:41:00.013-05:00

It's only 10 days until Christmas, but not too late to shop the coolest gifts for our guys! My guy friends are super chill, sweet, gentlemanly, goofy, and great listeners. Thanks for the work-out tips, dating advice, and all the brotherly support over the years -- you guys rock! Here are some fun things I found that would thrill any dude in our lives. Of course, they are all under $30!

A wooden whiskey flask 'cause he loves his whiskey, $18.95

Field Notes notebooks to capture his thoughts, $11.95 for 3-pack

The Sinch to keep his earbuds tangle free, $15.99

Facial Fuel Energizing Scrub for the manliest clean, $17

.... coupled with the best soap in the world, $13

A "Tea Rex" tea infuser to make sick days feel a little better, $14

Since he always looks cute in one, a plaid flannel shirt, $29.90

Monogrammed beer or pilsner glasses 'cause he's just that special, $20 for set of 4

.... to go with his Mustache pint glasses that'll remind him of Movember, $24 for set of 4

A year's subscription to his favorite magazine, Rolling Stone, $11.95 with discount

Quirky camera cuff links that show off his love for photography, $10

And lastly, to help him prepare for a new year, a 2012 calendar made of wood, $15

PS: A gift guide for our girlfriends!

a little laughter

2011-12-12T20:06:00.007-05:00

Ok. (via the BEST tumblr ever)

I'm with ya there, Ross! ;)

Haaaave I told you about Bitch?

Awesome.

100% me.

(photos via: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

Under $30 Gift Guide: for your fabulously creative best girl friends

2011-12-08T19:41:00.047-05:00

Hello loves! I'm thrilled to introduce the first ever Helen Hearts holiday gift guide! Since there are tons of amazing products all over the web, I'd love to share some that I found especially charming. Here's a round up of fun gifts for all the wonderful, creative, and lovely women in our lives. Thanks for being our supporters, confidants, and sisters. (PS: This list is all under $30, cause I know we have a lot of shopping to do!)

A 14k gold wishbone necklace for good luck, $23

Pretty scented soap that makes her feel like a lady, $14

Super rad mojave coasters for her coffee table, $10

StickyGram magnets of your favorite instagram memories, $14.99 for 9

Sweet blue stitched notebook to doodle in, $7.95
"Napoleon" box of 6 Macarons to munch on from Laduree, 12.50€

A wise T-shirt to lounge around in, $14.99

Sparkly essie luxeffects nail polish to brighten her day, $8 per bottle

My favorite book from 2011 (if she doesn't already own it!), $15.49

Pom pom mittens to keep her fingers warm, $14.54

Sometimes, the greatest gift is bitch... wines! $9.99 per bottle

A gourmet lunch bag that will brighten up her office, $25

And to help her bring in the new year: a 2012 wall calendar, $30

the case of the iphone case

2011-12-07T23:52:00.015-05:00

I'm so darn silly. I've already bought 2 iPhone cases, but both of them are pretty awful. (That's what happens when you are tempted by cheap things on Amazon!) I can't help but look longingly at other options, especially cases that are made of unexpected materials, like wood or leather.

Brass and wood case from EXOVault

Wood case from Jack Spade

Leather case from J.Crew

I'm also weirdly drawn to scalloped designs. I don't know why! Maybe because the first one below reminds me of a favorite childhood book, Rainbow Fish :)

Scales case from Urban Outfitters

Jonathan Adler colorful case

Which is your favorite? What should I get? I'm going to do this one final time, no more mistakes! Heeeeelp!

winter casual

2011-12-04T18:56:00.004-05:00

It hasn't been freezing here in NYC, but still brisk enough to layer on all the winter accessories. I've been walking around all weekend in my Madewell parka, riding boots, and knit infinity scarves.... very cozy indeed! Here are a few street style looks that are seasonally chic & cozy in every way.

I'm especially drawn the the neutral color palette & lots of knits, like this cabled sweater...

(style photos via 1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

before sunrise.... part 3?!

2011-11-30T22:59:00.008-05:00

Eeeks. Just read the best movie news ever: according to NYMag there will be a third Before Sunrise film!! The first two movies, Before Sunrise and Before Sunset were so magical, I'm antsy to know what finally happened to Celine and Jesse! Have you seen the films before? It's one of my favorite (unconventional) love stories, next to When Harry Met Sally of course.

My favorite scene in Before Sunrise is the telephone scene. So sweet and brave and absolutely endearing, and one of many fantastic (and romantic) scenes.

Before Sunset was just as magical, but it made me a little sad to see them become so adult, 9 years later. Reality really set in. Good thing the chemistry was still there! Aah, I can't wait to stay tuned for what's next!

turkey weekend

2011-11-26T18:38:00.010-05:00

Sighhh. I'm writing from Philly after yet another amazing home cooked Chinese meal. Life is good. How was your Thanksgiving? I had an awesome American/Chinese feast with cute "Turkey cupcakes", then later burned it all off while waiting in line for 2 hours with my Dad at my first Black Friday experience: midnight opening at Best Buy, which was INSANE. (Seriously, never again.) But we ended up with a Toshiba laptop for my little sister (pictured below) for $300, so it was a successful night. Instagram-ed photos below.

I also drank lots of home squeezed pomegranate juice. My Dad is in love with his juicer/mixer, so I have tried just about every juice combination on the planet. (Wheat grass + Pineapple + Kiwi? Yep, done that.)

2nd shopbop giveaway winner announced!

2011-11-22T22:52:00.009-05:00

I'm excited to finally announce our $100 Shopbop gift card giveaway winner... congrats to Michelle Ye Zhang! Hope you have a fun time shopping, my dear. I'll be sending you an email soon :)

PS: If you'd like to take a peek at past Helen Hearts giveaways, click here.

PPS: One more giveaway is coming your way post-Thanksgiving!

(top photo by vanessa jackman)

lounge in style

2011-11-21T22:36:00.000-05:00

It's Thanksgiving week! For many of us lucky ones, that means relaxing at home and feasting on the most delicious food with loved ones. That's where these cozy bralets, sweatshirts, and sweatpants from byLangely might come in handy. While you're oh so stylishly lounging with a very full stomach, it'll be hard not to feel thankful. Until Thursday! xoxo

(lounge clothing via byLangely, sneakers via Asics)

6 mini creative projects

2011-11-18T22:40:00.014-05:00

Woohoo, it's Friday and I'm so relieved. I've been struggling to get over a terrible cough, so I'm hoping to lay low and make this weekend about rest & creativity. All I want to do is clean my apartment, clear my head, and dream up fun, creative projects to take on. (Painting? Knitting? DIY decor-making? Who knows?) Have any creative to-do's on your plate? (They can be super simple, like taking a walk & collecting some pretty leaves.) Here are a few creatively inspiring things from around the web...

1. Make your own art with a thrift store painting, tape, and white paint!

2. Dying to try this DIY stationary using vegetables!

3. So inspired by this Wataru Yoshida artwork via my friend's art blog

4.Can't wait to finish Mindy Kaling's hilarious book!

5. 35 ways to be more creative, a video.

6. Tea + this amazing Mr. Darcy inspired mug. Divine!

Have a good one xoxo

currently craving: chocolate!

2011-11-17T19:41:00.001-05:00

I have consumed one and a half Cadbury chocolate bars this week. (I CAN'T stop!!!) I feel like I'm hungover on sugar. Too bad I can't resist my sweet tooth! Here's to sweet (& sometimes savory) cravings...

Croatian sweet walnut chocolate bread

Homemade nutella (grind up hazelnut, chocolate, etc)

Chocolate lava cake

Affogato, an Italian dessert of espresso poured over gelato

and Oreo truffles!

I think I'll have a bite of each, please! What are you craving?

(photos via 1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

weekend, instagramed

2011-11-13T19:53:00.010-05:00

Ah, weekends.... Neighborhood walks in the East Village, Quidditch World Cup excitement on Randall's Island (crazy how it's become a real sport!), ramen food coma at Naruto & peanut buttery snacks. (Plus a birthday dinner at Cucina de Pesce + lots of dancing later!) Lovely times with Justin, Paul, Rachael, and Ahra. Hope you had a good one too!

2nd time is the charm: $100 Shopbop giveaway! (scarves, hats, and more!)

2011-11-11T08:29:00.003-05:00

My dears, I am so beyond psyched and privileged to be partnering with Shopbop again to host another $100 gift card giveaway! Since fall/winter is such a fashionable time of year (accessories galore!), there are just too many goodies to choose from: cozy spun scarves, chic hats (I adore Eugenia Kim's creations), and warm maxi dresses (Matthew Williamson, anyone?). What's on your shopping wish list?

To enter & win, simply leave a comment below with your email and follow Helen Hearts on Google Friend Connect (just click on the box to the left). Also, be sure to fan Shopbop on Facebook. A winner will be randomly chosen (via random.org) on November 22nd at 6pm. (International friends may enter as well!) Good luck xoxo

Update: Our lucky winner is Michelle Ye Zhang. Thanks for playing.

wisdom corner

2011-11-09T19:42:00.005-05:00

“ Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness. Never hope to find people who will understand you, someone to fill that space. An intelligent, sensitive person is the exception, the very great exception. If you expect to find people who will understand you, you will grow murderous with disappointment. The best you'll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way.”
― Janet Fitch, White Oleander

(photo via wit+delight)

my friend's going to iceland!

2011-11-08T18:06:00.008-05:00

My friend Eunsan just booked a 4 day trip solo trip to Iceland -- and I am PSYCHED for her and super impressed. We were just talking about how life was getting a little too comfortable & predictable... My solution was more along the lines of getting a new hobby, but then Eunsun goes and books a plane ticket to ICELAND, all by herself! (So brave... I'm inspired.) Iceland sounds crazy rad, doesn't it? Kristina of Krisatomic, a favorite blogger/illustrator of mine, captured some great Iceland shots on her trip this past spring...

(all photos by krisatomic)

Kristina also compiled an Iceland inspiration post, which is so gorgeous... the mountains, greenery, and wilderness astound me! I am so excited for you Eunsun -- better bring your down coat & rain boots :)

new york black - are you ready for winter?

2011-11-06T01:20:00.014-04:00

Brr, has it been c-c-cold this weekend! Now that daylight savings has arrived, we need to just embrace it: it's wintertime, ladies and gents. That means no more thin jackets and bare legs, unless you want to go for the freezing-chic look. Bring on the wool, knit, and thermal leggings! When it comes to my winter staples, I can't get enough sleek cut anythings and black, black, black. I'm a New Yorker, can't help it! Here's what you need to grab ASAP if you want to be a downtown cool kid/ my twin...

A sleek, military wool coat

I'm addicted to the lines of this coat. (Via Victoria's Secret, my sub for this Burberry stunner)

A chunky, knit cowl scarf

The chunkier, the better. Yes, I said it. (Via Etsy)

Minimalistic, leather boots

I would wear this to work every day. (Suede and leather boots via Zara)

Rain/snow boots

Better than duck boots, that's for sure. (Via Hunter)

Roomy, badass bag

Tough enough to take on the worst weather. (City Chic Bag via Anne Taylor)

After you're all done getting dressed, go outside and listen to Amy Winehouse's "Back to Black" on your iPhone 4s, and don't make eye contact with anyone. If you still don't feel like an extra from The Matrix, pull on these vintage black Ray Bans for good measure. See ya around the block!

a halloween history

2011-11-02T18:50:00.020-04:00

Boo! Yes, it's me. Long time no see! Hope you had an incredible Halloween weekend -- did you dress up or go to any parties? I went out this weekend in two costumes: Morticia of the Addams Family (with a few friends as family members :) and Nicki Minaj. It was hilarious to "play" these characters and completely change personalities! So exhilarating!

Halloween is one of my favorite holidays - I just love dressing up and seeing everyone else decked out! Last year, I was a cat (in black and stripes!) with crazy feathered eyelashes.

And in years prior, I was a pirate wench, with lots of (fake) tattoos...

... and a french maid, when I was a crazy college student in 2007. (Definitely not the classiest or most creative costume, but everyone needs to experience a totally stereotypical Halloween costume once!)

What's your favorite Halloween costume ever? I really liked being Nicki Minaj - it was my first time in a wig, and I felt magically transformed! :)

PS: Would you ever go as a cadaver like Heidi Klum this year? So creepy, but I have to applaud her courage (and imagination)!

new crushes -- rainboots you've been replaced!

2011-10-26T23:08:00.013-04:00

Did I ever mention that my Hunter rain boots ordering was a total fail? Gilt Groupe sent the wrong style and size, and then told me my original order was sold out. This made me cry and wander solemnly around NYC, sans rainboots, Adele-style. (You think I'm kidding...) But that was totally 3 weeks ago. Over it. Onto the next one!

Raincoat, I'm lookin' at you...

And your twin, the cloak hoodie, is pretty cute too.

Nice to meet you, lady bow!

Swiffer duster meets dollar store lei necklace. Let's be friends, then fall in love and stuff, k?

4 snuggly-feeling things

2011-10-24T23:11:00.008-04:00

Our heat finally turned on today -- thank GOODNESS. Autumn can be really annoying if you're getting up early and freezing. (I take morning showers -- it wakes me up!-- and coming out from the steam into frigid temperature is the worst.) But I like this season with my heaters working... makes me want to burrow in my apartment and stay there forever. In the name of snuggling, here's 4 things that bring out the snuggly in me...

Fireplaces. Real or fake.

Autumn-y decor. Always makes me feel warm (and appreciative of being inside)!

Cashmere scarf. (Anything cashmere will do)

A comfy armchair + thick blanket. Heaven.

What makes you feel snuggly? Wool socks? Hot cocoa? A snuggle buddy? All of the above? :)

Classic brunch with classy ladies

2011-10-23T20:19:00.003-04:00

I popped by my parents' home this weekend in the Philly suburbs and happily got to catch up with some of my best friends from home! You might recognize these girls, they are kinda all over this blog. We went to the Classic Diner, our regular brunch place, and I had the most amazing peanut butter and banana french toast. Home isn't home without loved ones-- the people who know you inside out --and yummy food! ;)

Me and Mary Kate

Audrey and Anna

I wish I could say I totally demolished it, but I ended up bringing half back to my sister -- it was so gigantic!

amazing quote

2011-10-18T19:09:00.001-04:00

I've been seeing this sentiment everywhere and thinking lots about it...

Doesn't it make you feel so motivated? I'm also focusing on the "sleeping" part, because you can't live your best life and "move mountains" without some quality rest. So make sure to take gentle care of yourself :)

(via 1, 2)

the perfect black dress

2011-10-16T13:56:00.011-04:00

This is my idea of the perfect black dress for autumn. I love everything about it: the long sleeves, the dreamy A-line skirt, the sexy deep-v back, and sweet dotted mesh inlay. I can see myself wearing it to a poetry reading or on a date. So, so sad that it's all sold out! It's an unrequited love kind of situation :(

Long sleeve chevron dress, $94 via Need Supply

the wine lover's tote

2011-10-15T16:54:00.002-04:00

Wish I had a super cute wine tote to lug wine over to my friend's dinner party tonight. These Maptotes are really, really tempting me right now!

I'm originally from Philly, and now am going on to 5 years in NYC... but I love the beautiful blue of that Napa Valley design! Which maptote would you get?

visual poetry

2011-10-14T18:29:00.006-04:00

This new-to-me tumblr Visual Poetry is pretty darn neat. As a former poetry minor and a design fanatic, I'm really digging this marriage! What I love about conceptual art is that it's so rooted in our emotions. We often don't know if we love or hate something, but we certainly do feel something for them. And sometimes, that's all we really need.

My old-school poet-crush e.e. cummings would agree. He did love to feel.

(all photos via visual poetry)

guest blogger: 3 things mary kate's MAD for!

2011-10-10T20:29:00.021-04:00

Hi pretties! Oh my goodness has my life been crazy! I've been a little bit preoccupied with work, etc, so I asked my dear friend Mary Kate to guest blog and share her current obsessions. MK is super stylish, and an artist to boot! I know you'll love her thoughts on Makeup, Art, and Dessert. Here are a few things she's MAD for...

Mary Kate, Rockstar Friend & Guest Blogger Extraordinaire

Makeup: Paper eyelashes

"I’m usually not a fan of false eyelashes, but I came across these insane, ornate paper eyelashes from PaperSelf (also available at Sephora) and thought to myself, how creative! You probably won’t catch me dead or alive in these things, but for the right girl (and perhaps for Halloween), I am all for them."

Art: Italian painter Roberto Ferri

"There is just too much to love about Roberto Ferri and his work. For one, he carries on the tradition set before him by his Italian master predecessors. He may be a contemporary painter, though his refined treatment of the paint screams, “Michelangelo! Botticelli! Tintoretto!” All of Ferri’s figures are exquisitely lit, voluminous, and sensual."

Dessert: Palmiers

"Next on my neverending list of things to learn to make: palmiers. These flaky, buttery cookies are an absolute staple in all French pastry shops and I had peut-être one too many when I studied abroad there. I’d also love to learn how to whip up a mean pain au chocolat. One thing at a time, though!"

Thanks MK for your gorgeous list! :)

seafan scarves

2011-10-04T18:20:00.014-04:00

Oooh. Definitely a fan of this silky, handprinted Seafan Heart scarf. It's fun and subtly stylish -- perfect for the chilly weather we're seeing this week! (Hope you're staying warm friends, wherever you are.)

PS: I didn't know what a seafan was until now. Apparently, it also goes by the name, "gorgonian". I think gorgeous is a better descriptor.

Seafan Heart scarf, $42 via Snoozer Loser

gossipy notebooks (I met and liked!)

2011-10-01T19:49:00.007-04:00

- Isabel, my Europe '09 backpacking partner-in-crime
- British guy from Vienna who told me his life story
- My NYU Danone team!

- My old freshman year floor at Rubin
- The NYU Local launch party attendees
- The NYU creative writing program

- Giving people I just met giant, surprise hugs
- Asking people how their vacations went after I stalked on facebook
- "I like your new haircut!" "I didn't get a haircut" "Oh, well, it looks good!"

- Sitting by the Seine river, bottle of wine all to myself in Paris
- Seconds & thirds of mom's homemade cooking
- That extra cookie/brownie/cupcake and glass of red wine

Err... that's private! Just kidding!
- Rhett Butler
- Leopold
- Don Draper

How fun are these notebooks? Which one would you want to have sitting on your nightstand? I like the excesses one the best -- it must be so fun to read back on our indulgences. Mine would be filled with yummy brunches and dinners. :)

Archie Grand notebooks, $10 each on Amazon.

my, my, mine! macaroons!

2011-09-29T18:02:00.003-04:00

Holy macaroons. 48 to be precise, in chocolate, vanilla, coffee, lemon, raspberry, and pistachio. Gilt Taste, you are killing me here. Sidenote: My friend and L'Oreal coworker Jacquelyn sent this over via email mid-day to a group of us. (I call the pistachio!) The email was titled "I'm doing real work!" Made me laugh :)

$54.99 for 48 macaroons via Gilt Taste.

autumn lists: hometown honeys

2011-09-26T23:53:00.010-04:00

Since autumn is finally here, I thought I'd revamp my Summer lists column (featuring some of my friends' amazing to-do's!) and officially introduce the the Autumn lists! Whee! Fall is my favorite season, so I was SO excited to ask my hometown honeys aka my best friends from high school to share their hopes and wishes for this new season. These girls mean a lot to me, and I'm always inspired by the things they want to accomplish. Here's what they shared...

Mary Kate's list:

- Find an amazing art job in NYC or Philly
- Work hard on writing/illustrating my children's book
- Spend more time with friends trying new restaurants

Anna's list:

- Catch up on sleep or refill on Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Lattes!
- Take a tour in my new city (D.C) to see the changing colors of leaves
- Visit my best friends in their respective cities

Jillian's list:

- Be a top Mary Kay Consultant
- Make all the desserts at Thanksgiving dinner (can someone say homemade pies?)
- Start working out again

Caroline's list:

- Start running every morning in Riverside Park (NYC)
- Finish making my personal website, carolinewu.com
- Learn how to make an all-natural perfume

Thank you ladies for your lists, and for your beautiful friendship. Can't wait for more NYC New Year's celebrations, sunny vacations, and everything in between. And here's to checking off these autumn lists -- I will be cheering you on! xoxo

smiley sunday

2011-09-25T14:11:00.007-04:00

Sundays are so lovely - my favorite day of the week! I usually meet up with friends and walk around my neighborhood, but I think I'm going to take it easy today, due to a wine headache (So sad!). Here are few cheer-up-and-smile prints and photos.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

A kissing checklist

A star projector! Would love this in my living room.

(via 1, 2, 3)

mad for maps

2011-09-23T23:59:00.004-04:00

I am so into maps lately. My living room walls are still very bare, and I have all kinds of ideas on how to fill them. Modern or vintage, a map of New York or Pennsylvania (my two home states) is on my wish-list! Vintage maps are so deliciously cozy and full of history; and modern maps are aesthetically fresh and uplifting. I really love them all!

Maps not only make for tremendous art, they're also visual reminders of all the places we've traveled or lived. They add sentimental value. And for some reason, I always think a room with a map looks classier -- even a bathroom-- and also more interesting like the chalkboard painted map below.

I'll be looking on Etsy for some great deals... let me know if you see anything out there!

(via 1, 2, 3, 4)

personal comforts

2011-09-19T22:17:00.030-04:00

Since last weekend was crazy, I vowed to make this weekend super lazy and stress-free. So I went back to my two greatest comforts: Chinese food and nature. Which makes sense if you were raised in woodsy Philadelphia suburbs by first generation Chinese parents. Growing up, bad days always looked a little brighter with some dumplings and a cool backyard to play in. Instant cheer up :)

I don't have a backyard, so I did the next best thing: spend some quality time chilling in a Nolita playground while snacking on Chinatown baozi (prefaced the night before by soup dumplings!). I even later made it to McNally Jackson, my favorite bookstore. (Thanks to Eunsan, my foodie companion, for coming with!) What are your personal comforts?

PS: If you're in need of a nature pick-me-up, you must watch this video. So calming.

The Mountain from TSO Photography on Vimeo.

it's finally autumn

2011-09-16T20:53:00.011-04:00

The weather in NYC suddenly got so chilly yesterday. I'm secretly happy that it's been wet and cold, just because I can't wait to wear my cozy sweaters and lots of layers! Perfect timing, since I just pounced on these fun wedged (yes, wedge!) Hunter rain boots from yesterday's Gilt Groupe sale. (Can't wait to see them in the mail, eeks!) Hope you have a cozy weekend and make sure to stay warm xoxo.

ceviche cravings

2011-09-15T18:35:00.017-04:00

Ceviche is my newest favorite food -- I'm a little bit infatuated, in fact. I never thought I'd be so brave to try raw fish that "cooks" via marinating in acidic citrus juices, but I'm an enigma, ha! I had my first taste at the Mermaid Inn Oyster Bar this past weekend, and almost had a Tilda Swinton food seduction moment from I Am Love.

Yesterday, I popped by my neighborhood Whole Foods in Soho and inevitably had to try their freshly cooked salmon ceviche. One response: FOOD. HEAVEN. I've heard of sweet and savory tooths, but who knew you could have such a fishy craving? (That does not sound very sexy at all.) Anyone else have any weird cravings to fess up to?

(photos via whole foods and the healthy foodie)

beauty favorites: tomboy + girly girl

2011-09-14T19:00:00.014-04:00

I love men's beauty products. Musky colognes, simple packaging -- I just gravitate towards them! I was a total tomboy growing up in the woods of Ontario, Canada, and have always kept my beauty routine very minimalistic. Some of my favorite products are undeniably masculine (yet female-friendly), like this creamy Kiehl's soap. It's so rich and smells divine!

Nowadays, I'm a little bit more girly and prone to explore beyond my comfort zone. The other day, I went with my friend Eunsan to Sephora on a mission. She ended up with red lipliner which she plans to use as eyeliner (very Cyndi Lauper), and I bought my first highlighter (which I had always associated as a neon marker -- until now!)

I chose the Sephora brand highlighter, and love the well-rested, glowy result. A few dabs around the eye and brow, and I'm awake. Why haven't I tried this before? What's your tomboy or girly girl beauty product?

PS: If you're a tried and true Tomboy, check out fun blog Tomboy Style, written by Lizzie Garrett.

"buy a bar, give a bar"

2011-09-07T18:37:00.017-04:00

I'm really smitten with Philly-based social enterprise Hand in Hand soap, which launched this August. These "sustainable suds" are made of fair trade ingredients and are palm-free and 100% eco-friendly. Most importantly, for every bar of soap purchased, a bar is donated to help save a child's life. (Every 20 seconds, a mother loses her child to a water-related illness -- shocking!)

And isn't the package charming? Their orange blossom soap is made up of "gentle blends of grapefruit, orange blossom, and eucalyptus." Sounds heavenly.

To learn more, visit Hand in Hand.

PS: Two other soaps I love.

rainy day, sunny dreams

2011-09-06T17:58:00.009-04:00

It's raining outside, and I'm snuggled up in bed (L'Oreal gave us the day after Labor day off!) after spending the long weekend in Philly, which was so nice. I had brunch and went shopping with some of my closest girlfriends from home, and ate lots of seconds (and thirds) of Mom's cooking.

I also had a talk with my friends (Hi Anna, MK, and Jill!) about going on vacation together sometime in next spring/summer, which I really hope comes into fruition. I'm craving somewhere tropical, sandy, and warm... any fun suggestions? (St. Thomas is a contender :)

U.S. friends, hope you all had a lovely Labor Day weekend!
(photos via ten june and balenciaga)

wall decal inspiration

2011-08-31T21:10:00.011-04:00

Since I discovered the power of a great wall decal, I feel like a whole new world of design possibilities has been opened up for me! I love the choices over at Blik (thanks Jacquelyn), and now I wish I had more walls and corners - more free space to cover! Wall decals are such an inexpensive and easy substitute for so many things...

A headboard...

Works of art...

Accent walls...

And alternative furniture (mirror and plant, whee!)

So many different choices, right? And all of them would make a living space so much more fun. See all the options over at Blik's online shop, and tell me your favorite!

PS: Blik was featured in Entrepreneur mag's "100 Brilliant Ideas 2010" list. Cool!

beautiful photo

2011-08-30T09:30:00.004-04:00

Naomi of the Rockstar Diaries is having a photo giveaway, and that's how I bumped into Amelia Johnson Photography... and how I found this photograph (which has captivated me!). It's part of an engagement portrait series, and now I want it on my wall. (Which kind of makes me creepy. Oh well!)

I have this empty frame from Ikea that I think would go perfectly with it. Shopping trip soon, anyone?

(photo by Amelia Johnson Photography)

clare vivier

2011-08-28T23:26:00.008-04:00

I'm obsessed with Clare Vivier's functional chic style, and I especially love her bags. They're pretty irresistible in a perfect-for-everyday kind of way.

I'd take the La Tropezienne tote everywhere, because it's roomy enough to fit everything. (Can't decide between leather and canvas though.)

And the La Pochette clutch would be perfect for a sunny lunch date. The stripe comes in all sorts of colors. Both are so timeless, no? I really admire Clare and her company... keep up the beautiful work!

ta-da! the bedroom reveal

2011-08-26T21:00:00.009-04:00

I cleaned up my room today because we're expecting some friends to sleep over due to Hurricane Irene evacuations. It's hard to believe that Alex and I only moved into our apartment 3 weeks ago! I feel like we've lived here forever in the East Village, a convenient 5 minutes away from my old stomping grounds in Washington Square Park. Thought I'd give you a little bedroom tour, if you'd like to see...

Here's what's in my room:
- 2 accent walls in Benjamin Moore Aqua Marina #816 paint
- Bed frame, bookcase, desk, wall decal, and wall shelves from Ikea

- Bedlinen and curtains also from Ikea

- Dresser, a DIY project (new paint and knobs)
- Yellow leather chair & lamp, lucky finds

- Garment rack from Target

- Beautiful prints: Picasso's "Guernica" and Jim Datz's "Manhattan"

Thanks to Ikea, some blue paint, and a few personal touches, I have a bedroom! (That didn't cost me an arm and a leg!) What do you think?

PS: My favorite (free) online decor magazines for inspiration

yellow mission

2011-08-24T22:59:00.008-04:00

All it took was a polished, yellow blazer from J. Crew's latest lookbook to make me look around my apartment and realize that there was just not enough yellow. It's my favorite color, so what gives? I think I have a new mission for the week... a yellow mission.

- Liu Wen modeling a J.Crew look
- Dark chocolate dipped pineapple. Yum.

- Kate Spade "Wickford Sea Cliffs" mug

- Room & Board Neon yellow lamp

- ABC Carpet & Home Yellow basket with linen lining

- Modcloth "No Fair" balloon animal bookend

PS: My yellow leather chair, a treasure.

spotted at the brooklyn flea

2011-08-23T21:40:00.009-04:00

I visited the Brooklyn Flea (@ Fort Green) with my friend Kim on Saturday, and naturally, we spent all of our money on food. It was scorching hot outside in the open-air market, so we tried some tasty shaved iced from People's Pop and also couldn't resist a Dough donut, which ended being the best decision ever. (Mine had a citrus glaze, and it was fresh, tangy, fluffy, delicious, amazing! Blew my mind.)

Dough donuts! (photos via the Village Voice)

There are a ton of great vendors at the flea, though I haven't purchased anything yet (I'm picky!). But I did do some pretend-shopping in my head, which includes...

At least one super rad instrument lamp by Instrumental Lighting

Three beautiful collage-style prints from John Murphy

I have a weakness for prints and kooky furniture, what can I say. And the prices aren't even too ridiculous! I'll be back, Brooklyn. At least to check out Smorgasburg for the food. See you next weekend?

PS: Good times at the Hester St Fair

jewelry that "works"

2011-08-22T16:25:00.012-04:00

Phew, has blogging been a toughie this week. It's week 2 of training at work, and I've been catching myself admiring my lovely coworkers' jewelry across the conference table. Lots of fun cocktail rings and earrings, but never too distracting or oversized... totally work appropriate! Here are a few from the ever addicting Asos for inspiration...

Rings via 1, 2, and 3

Earrings via 1, 2, and 3

Too boring for you? (I never wear earrings, so this is actually a challenge for me!) You can always go bananas on the weekends :)

entrepreneurship 101 (with saucy commentary)

2011-08-17T15:29:00.015-04:00

An NYU friend just asked for my recommendation on books for aspiring entrepreneurs, so I thought I'd share it with you awesome readers, in case you were wondering as well! The books I like are great for their fantastic advice and real-life, personal anecdotes, but they're also more importantly fun to read. You don't have to have a plan to start a business to enjoy them! Here are my best of the best (with commentary from yours truly).

Made to Stick

Or, "Do Your Research, Or Take Your Idea Off Of That Pedestal"
Tagline: If they don't get it in 3 sentences, you can fuggetaboutit.

The 4-Hour Work Week

Or, "Life Guide for the Lazy and Ambitious"
Tagline: Hard work doesn't actually pay off if you're all over the place.

Crush It

Or, "Become a Social Media Expert Or Die Trying"
Tagline: Seduce thy audience with thy twitter account.

Or, "The Art of the Hustle: Help Others Help You Without Being a A$$hole"
Tagline: WTF is networking? Here's the handbook.

Cheesy taglines or not, I crack myself up sometimes :)

PS: An inspiring video on entrepreneurs changing the world

summer lists: boys edition!

2011-08-12T00:25:00.016-04:00

We only have one more month of summer, can you believe it? As promised, I asked some more friends for their summer lists. Here's what a few of my best guy friends had to say...

Perry's list:

- Write more screenplays

- Pick up on surfing (he's from Newport Beach, CA!)

- Take more photos

Dan's list:

- Read Radetzkymarsch (and more books in general)
- Go to the Red Bulls v. Galaxy match

- Buy a briefcase in chocolate or cognac

Justin's list:

- Make a good first impression at work

- Start going to yoga classes at least 1x per week

- Figure out what it means to have a boyfriend

Stephen's list:

- Learn to play scales on the harmonica

- Finish final two CPA exams

- Try to relax before work starts in September

Thanks for your lists, boys! I'm going to be checking in on your progress.. fair warning :)

PS: Check out the previous summer lists post.

xoxo

things to dwell on

2011-08-10T15:15:00.013-04:00

I'm back in NYC! I start work next Monday, so I've had some sweet free time to explore, read, and do some thinking. Here's what on my mind at the moment...

Just purchased this DIY dictionary, Be Thrifty. It's been so fun and useful to flip through.
Still thinking about my first taste of raw oysters ($1/oyster during happy hour at Essex).
Purse DIY: I'm revamping a vintage purse by exchanging the straps with chains from an arts & crafts store.
I'd love to own a vapur water bottle.
Obsessed with Skillshare, a site that allows people to learn anything from anyone by offering a host of cool classes in your city. I'd love to take this one, this one, and this.
This Burts Bee's Tinted Lip balm looks so yum!

decor a la hollywood

2011-08-04T03:09:00.008-04:00

Not to go on and on about decor, but Apartment Therapy just wrote a post titled "20 Unforgettable American Movie Interiors", and it is bomb (as my friend Kaitlin would say). It's so crazy how background decorations can set the entire tone for the film -- quirky, sad, or fashionable, or sometimes all three.

Breakfast at Tiffany's (with the infamous bathtub couch)

The Royal Tenenbaums

The Single Man

crafty decorating ideas

2011-08-02T22:32:00.011-04:00

I've been inspired by all kinds of alternative ways to decorate these days... which is perfect, since I just moved to a new apartment in the East Village, and it is looking rather sparse. Here are a few things I've learned...

Instead of a buying headboard, why not drape a printed cloth or scarf?

Instead of buying prints, why not make one yourself?

Instead of splurging on a nightstand, why not stack up some books?

Love great decor - especially when it's on the cheap!

(photos via 1, 2, 3)

gorgeous summer dresses

2011-08-01T23:18:00.005-04:00

My heart is aflutter over these sweet dresses from Asos. Look at that butterfly print! I love a good v-neck and fluttery sleeve. And the peekaboo back cut-out? So cute.

Oasis Butterfly Dress & Warehouse Floral Open Back Dress (both $77.58)

what summer vacation looks like

2011-07-29T21:22:00.010-04:00

I've been a bad blogger. Darn you, vacation, for making me so lazy. (I kid, don't ever leave me!) So I'm back at my parent's home in Philly, living the suburban life until August-ish, and this is really what my life currently looks like. It's amazing. I'm so enjoying this precious R&R time before work starts August 15th!

I'll be back to normal pace by then, and of course, will be posting our family Euro-cation pictures up soon. Hope you have a restful and relaxing weekend!

PS: That Queen Helene face masque is my favorite product of the summer.

newspaper blackout poems

2011-07-24T20:07:00.003-04:00

Austin Kleon's series of newspaper blackout poems are so fantastic. What a DIY inspiration! I can't wait to come up with a few of my own.

"Overheard on the Titanic"

"What is Marriage?"

(Via cup of jo, by Austin Kleon)

ruben toledo for LV postcards

2011-07-21T21:37:00.010-04:00

Hi lovelies! I'm back from an adventurous two weeks visiting Berlin, Vienna, Salzburg, and Prague. It was so nice spending time with family, and my sensorial buds were on overdrive from the stunning architecture, art, and history that surrounded us. We were so lucky to share this amazing experience.

I took lots of photos and found a few pretty postcards from each city to remember them by. I prefer more artistic postcards without labels/names, but they were really difficult to find! These Ruben Toledo 100 postcards set for Louis Vuitton Cityguide are gold in my book. Toledo's sketches capture the essence of each city so well, don't you think? Here are some favorites... recognize the iconic landmarks?

More details on the trip later! Can't wait to catch up some zzz's (jetlag begone!) as well as your lovely blogs :)

(photos via ilvoelv.com)

your summer to-do lists

2011-07-07T00:44:00.020-04:00

Heading off to Europe tomorrow, but be back in a jiffy! Before I go, I wanted to ask: do you have a summer to-do list? Any specific projects or tiny wishes to carry out before September? Big or small, I'd love to hear! I asked a few of my friends, and here's what they shared:

Eunsan's list:

- Purchase a venus fly trap

- Learn how to cook macaroons

- Make more gourmet mac & cheese

Alex's list:

- Start a baking blog

- Pick up on boxing again

- Volunteer at horse stables in Long Island

Little sis Jessica's list:

- Memorize a Debussy song on the piano

- Finish reading the entire Bible

- Be less stressed about starting high school

And lastly, my summer list:

- Make progress on sewing

- Learn 3+ traditional Chinese dishes from mom

- Write more letters & thank-you notes

Hearing everyone's amazing goals and wishes = so fun. I challenge you to ask 5 friends for their list. You'll love the surprise/motivation/inspiration that will follow! (PS: It's no coincidence that all of the pictures above have food in them. My intense crab-eating action photo is from last summer. I love me some om nomz.)

I'll be posting up some more summer lists from friends, until the summer ends. Hope you enjoy this new installment!

red, white & blue cake + giveaway winner

2011-07-04T22:26:00.008-04:00

Independence Day cake. I dig. Also, big hooray to Oh My Darling for the Super by Perricone skincare giveaway win! Can't wait to hear what you pick. I'll be sending you an email soon. Cheers!

(photo via glorious treats)

have a beautiful weekend

2011-07-02T01:02:00.001-04:00

Happy weekend, my sweets. Can you believe it's July? I'll be home in Philly for July 4th... so excited to hang out with my family & old high school friends, and watch fireworks. We don't really go all out for July 4th weekend, but I'm looking forward to some relaxation before our Europe trip... which is coming up soon!

(photo via a well traveled woman)

am I crazy?

2011-06-28T19:34:00.009-04:00

My newest purchase -- am I crazy? I have never been an experimental dresser or especially fond of mesh. Then I tried on these Isabel Toledo for Payless "Vespadrille" wedges... and felt like a cooler, more avant-garde version of myself. Like a chick who wears miniskirts while riding motorcycles and knows how to use firearms. An amalgamation of Garance Dore and Lara Croft. HOW could I resist?! Sign me up for Tomb Raider Part III.

what a weekend!

2011-06-25T22:33:00.010-04:00

Ahh! So much has happened in NYC in the past 24 hours! With NY legislatures legalizing gay marriage, yesterday was a great day. I'm extremely excited for my friends, and honored to be working the Kiehls float at tomorrow's Pride March for the 2nd year in a row (as part of my work at L'Oreal, which owns Kiehls). I hear that there will be 500,000 to 1 million more attendants at the parade than the usual crowd of 1.5 million people, thanks to the vote. What can you say, we're all thrilled to be celebrating equality!

Update: See parade photos on my Flickr page!

(photo via musingsonfeminity)

dr. perricone's superfoods skincare giveaway: yogurt, melon, oh my!

2011-06-23T17:10:00.010-04:00

The past week has been difficult for me -- I'm home sick but am healing fast thanks to antibiotics. But there has been a bright part to this week! I'm so, so pleased to be partnering up again with our friends at Perricone for another skincare giveaway. Perricone is offering one lucky Helen Hearts reader a Super by Dr. Nicholas Perricone product valued at up to $150.

What's cool about this new line is that each product's active ingredient is derived from a superfood -- or what Dr. Perricone calls the top foods that are dramatically superior for maintaining beautiful skin. I'd love to try the products with superfoods yogurt and melon (which hydrates and brightens skin respectively.) This watercress elixir sounds wonderful too, like a super natural skin detox at home.

Here's how to enter for a chance to win:

Leave a comment below sharing which Super by Perricone product is your favorite, and why. And don't forget your email address so I can reach you!
Follow Helen Hearts on Google Friend Connect (just click on the left)
For additional entries, tweet or Facebook link this giveaway. Just let me know by leaving additional comments for each.

This giveaway is eligible for US/Canada friends only. A winner will be chosen via random generator on Monday, July 4th (yay, Independence day!) Good luck to all of you xoxo

Update: Congrats to Melissa from Oh My Darling, our lucky winner. Thanks for playing!

mad x2!

2011-06-20T20:20:00.003-04:00

I'm absolutely mad about these Mad Men collectible dolls that Kiernan Shipka (aka Sally Draper) owns. That sassy Joan doll is just perfect. (via the Coveteur.)

blogger meetup in mccarren park!

2011-06-18T19:45:00.016-04:00

I just got back from this blogger meetup in Williamsburg's McCarren Park (coordinated by the Delightful Dozen), and it was TOO CUTE. The weather was amazing and my fellow bloggers were so sweet & stylish. (So nice to meet you girls!) I'm especially glad to have finally hung out with the talented Jen (from Craftiness Now), who made the yummiest cookies for the picnic. Afterwards, we raided Beacon's Closet with Monroe & Yanil. I had so much fun -- and it wasn't just because of the spiked punch! Here are some photos:

Thanks so much to the Delightful Dozen for hosting! :)

chalkboard skulls

2011-06-16T18:47:00.024-04:00

I'm not particularly fond of macabre furniture, but these colorful chalkboard skulls are pretty clever! They're made of plastic and chalkboard paint, and must be so fun to write notes and reminders on. I can see them being quite a conversation starter! What do you think, do or don't?

($38 each via etsy)

sweet encouragement

2011-06-14T21:51:00.011-04:00

I took myself on a little date yesterday -- lots of walking, some window shopping, frozen yogurt, and some self reflection...

I'm loving my "me" time so much more than I used to. I'll go for jogs or read magazines in a park, and think about the new things I want to try, and what I'd like to learn... All of which has been super encouraging, like this Dr. Seuss quote. Do you cherish your quiet time too?

(photo via sun-shower)

viennese art nouveau

2011-06-13T18:36:00.041-04:00

My family and I are taking a European vacation in July, and I'm literally thinking about it every other minute! We've never been nevebeebbbthis cool -- our family vacations usually consist of either Disneyworld (my sister's 13) or camping in the Poconos. So 2 weeks in Berlin, Vienna, and Prague is a major upgrade and an enormous privilegeprivilege. We're so excited! :)

I've been dreaming of all the places I'd love to revisit (since I've previously been to Berlin and lived in Prague), though I'm especially looking forward to Vienna. It is one of the most historically significant cities for art and music, after all!

I'd love to see these beautiful Art Nouveau necklaces and brooches in person -- they're currently on exhibition at the Leopold Museum. You don't have to be a jewelry designer to be inspired by these beauties :) Oh, and a good supply of Gustav Klimt is an added bonus. Love his work. This painting's called "Life and Death". Isn't it breathtaking?

(photos from the Leopold Museum)

closet cleaning

2011-06-12T15:34:00.010-04:00

Thank goodness it's Sunday. I'm going to hang low, do laundry, and try to organize my closet, which is a mess/in need of severe editing. (Good thing Kendie's got some great tips on organizing.) I'm also making a careful list of all the things I'd like to add, like colorful tights, a nude slip (to keep my work dresses smooth & demure), and an incredible nude strapless bra. (I'd seriously splurge on that one!) What's on your shopping list? I love Matchbook magazine's list of 50 classics...

kate middleton for the win

2011-06-09T10:24:00.012-04:00

Okay, so we all know Kate Middleton is gorgeous and has great style... but did you know that she also happens to be the star of Kate Middleton For the Win? (Aka, the funniest royal tumblr EVER.) Loveezzzz it! You must go check it out ASAP :)

So brilliant!

yay for our $50 kathlin argiro giveaway winner!

2011-06-08T21:03:00.008-04:00

Many congrats to April, from April Maybe on winning the $50 Kathlin Argiro giveaway! April's blog background is covered in flowers, which is quite appropriate, since Kathlin Argiro has such gorgeous silk flowers on their etsy shop. I hope whatever you purchase leaves you feeling as special and stunning as this girl above looks! I'll be in touch via email... congrats again love!

(photo via Pinterest)

decor wonderful

2011-06-07T00:35:00.023-04:00

Whooaaaa! Have you read this NYTimes article on the the thriving business of online design magazines yet? It made my day, I LOVE learning more about my favorite online mags Lonny, Matchbook, and Rue. Such an interesting read, despite the angle being a bit negative. (Lonny's editor Michelle Adams even addressed it via video blog here.)

I feel so privileged to be reading these amazing magazines for free. They're extremely inspiring, and my passion for interior design and decor has shot through the roof because of them. I'm constantly hitting up flea markets and Craigslist for antiques, and am always scouring 20x200 and the Mammoth Collection for cool prints to get started on my "art wall". Have you stumbled upon any treasures lately? I'll keep you posted too, of course! (In the meantime, you can check out my Pinterest account for all of the treasures I collect online, if you like.)

PS: The $50 Kathlin Argiro giveaway ends tomorrow! Don't forget to enter to win :)

happy friday + blogger meetup!

2011-06-03T23:40:00.000-04:00

Happy Friday friends! I had a pretty lazy day, which mostly comprised of sleep, reading, cocktails (at Delicatessen) and a seafood spaghetti dinner at Cafe Fiat for a friend's farewell dinner. (Good luck on your move to India, Abeer!) Current status: snuggling in bed listening to this gorgeous playlist and reading Matchbook's 5th edition.

Also, I'm super pumped for this NYC & Philly blogger meetup (created by the Delightful Dozen). Since I'm originally from the Philly suburbs and have been in NYC for the past 4 years, this really hits close to home! And I can't wait to meet fellow bloggers, who are the most inspiring, full-of life people ever. (I remember running into Joanna from Cup of Jo last summer in the W. Village and seriously feeling like I was her best friend. She's exactly like her blog!) Who wants to come with me? I've never been to a blogger meetup before, have any of you?

style star: kendi!

2011-06-02T01:21:00.012-04:00

Ummm, cannot get enough of Kendi, one of my favorite style bloggers at the moment. Her sense of humor never fails to crack me up, and I love how her outfits are pulled together by high and low pieces, from Target to trendier sites like ModCloth.

I think our generation pays much more attention to brand names instead of actual product and design quality, which is really discouraging! I love that Kendi's style transcends those label boundaries we place on ourselves. As a testament to that, I just ordered those amazing black sandals she's wearing from Target. Kendi, you're such a style star!

(photos from Kendi Everyday)

genius, crafty ideas!

2011-06-01T19:20:00.009-04:00

The internet is blowing my mind! (But what else is new?) Some wonderful, innovative, awesome things related to food, interiors, and design I found while browsing:

Cupcakes in a cone! So smart and easy to eat.

Vintage furniture for rent.

What to do with leftover pasta... Spaghetti Pizza!

DIY chandelier, I'm dying. (via Joanna)

What a great (and simple!) invention

I'd love to eat at this roaming, outdoor restaurant

Oh, and happy June 1st, my loves :)

savage beauty

2011-05-30T23:14:00.019-04:00

New Yorkers! Have you been to the Met to see the Alexander McQueen "Savage Beauty" exhibit yet? I just went this Saturday after a 1.5 hour wait, but it was absolutely worth it. While McQueen's couture is known to be very dark, hard (& sometimes scary!), I loved his lighter, more whimsical designs the most. Here are a few of my favorites from the exhibit...

The Met did a great job selecting McQueen's most famous work and showcasing them with just the right interior design and music. Had goosebumps and shivers! Check out other McQueen designs in the exhibit here. But hurry quick - the exhibit closes after next weekend!

(Photos via artfashionandhim)

$50 kathlin argiro giveaway!

2011-05-28T22:25:00.040-04:00

Happy Memorial Day weekend! I'm really excited to share the latest giveaway from the super talented Kathlin Argiro, a dress designer based in NYC. I recently met Kathlin, and was really floored by her talent and craftsmanship. (We were chatting in her studio while Kathlin fitted one of her customers in a custom-made white graduation dress... I know, such a designer!) Later, I left with a smile on my face from our great conversation and also from my new Kathlin Argiro purchases... four beautiful silk flower pins!!!

I've been obsessed with pin-on flowers ever since I saw these pictures of Joy Cho (of Oh Joy!) and Emerson from Emersonmade styling them. You know how flowers can really add positive energy and beauty to any room? I have a feeling they can do that to people too. :)

Kathlin is offering a $50 gift card to her Etsy site, Kathlin Argiro, which features both her dreamy flowers and dresses. To enter:

Leave a comment with your email address below
Follow Helen Hearts (just look for the "Google Friend Connect" on the left).
Receive up to four additional entries if you Tweet or Facebook link this giveaway, and like Kathlin Argiro on Facebook and follow her on Twitter. Just let me know by leaving separate comments.

A winner will be chosen via random generator on Wednesday, June 8th. Best of luck darlings!

PS: I've been wearing Kathlin's flowers with my blazers at work, and also rocked this bright pink one today at an early Memorial Day BBQ -- clearly just a little love with them. xoxo

Update: Congrats to April, our lucky winner. Thanks for playing!

writer sightings!

2011-05-27T15:40:00.026-04:00

Luckiest. Week. Ever. I somehow managed to meet two of my favorite writers/ girl crushes, Jenny Slate and Miranda July, all within a span of 3 days! I went to the NYC Literary Death Match this Wednesday, and saw Jenny (creator and voice of hilarious short film Marcel the Shell With Shoes On) dominate! She is such an inspiration-- very successful actress/comedienne/writer/former SNL cast member, not to mention still in her twenties. Dannng, girl. Oh, and Jenny is pee-my-pants hilarious.

Just watch this...

And today, in front of McNally Jackson, I bumped into Miranda and HAD to say hello. Her short stories from No One Belongs Here More Than You are some of the best I've ever read. So I told her I was a "huge, huge, huge fan of your work" and she thanked me, and we chatted for like four glorious seconds. It was awesome.

So, Jenny and Miranda are both curly brunette Jewish ladies in film and literature. They're like badass twins. (Just see Miranda on the left, and Jenny at right.) Don't you recognize the same wit that's settled in the gaze of their eyes? I do. :)

yippee! congrats to our perricone giveaway winner!

2011-05-25T21:57:00.008-04:00

I'm overjoyed to be announcing the winner for the truly awesome $150 Perricone skin care! Congratulations to Carrie from This Free Bird, who was our lucky (randomly generated) number 10 out of 26 commenters. Will be emailing you shortly - hope you enjoy the luxurious products! xoxo

PS: New fashionably fun giveaway coming up next week! :)

(photo via pinterest)

I'm a real person now!! wahhh!

2011-05-23T19:03:00.033-04:00

This past Wednesday, I became a real person... I graduated college!!! In the morning, we had our all-NYU commencement in Yankee Stadium with graduation speaker the one and only Bill Clinton, and the NYU Stern Baccalaureate took place in the evening at Lincoln Center's Avery Fisher Hall. I had such a great week showing my family (mom, dad, and little sis Jessica) around NYC & celebrating the special occasion with them!

My parents stayed in Sohotel, which has a great story since it's the oldest-running hotel in NYC (and also conveniently a mere 3 blocks from my apartment). We ended up walking a lot around my Nolita/Soho neighborhood, and eating yummy sushi/seafood at Ichiumi and Italian goodies at Bread (not to mention various pastries and macaroons in coffee shops). Eating well on my parent's account is always pretty sweet :)

But the entire week, my thoughts about graduation were rollercoastering up and down -- from excitement to relief to sadness to feeling like I'm going to pee my pants (don't worry, I didn't). I'll miss being a student and taking cool classes. I'll miss my friends who will be scattered all all over the globe, from Boston to Bangalore, from Virginia to London (you know who you are!). It hasn't hit me quite yet that I'm an NYU alum, a real working professional -- a real person! It's time to start piling on the anti-wrinkle cream, I'm getting oooooold!!

paris in midnight

2011-05-19T14:22:00.009-04:00

My obsession with Paris and fondness for Woody Allen films means I need to see Midnight in Paris ASAP! I'm planning on seeing it at the Angelika next week. I've also heard great things about Bridesmaids, which I think I'll catch this weekend during my time back home in Philly. Any other new movie recommendations, friends?

(Photos via Tribeca Film Festival)

today's sale

2011-05-17T13:02:00.007-04:00

Oh Kate Spade sample sale.... the things that I would do to you if I weren't saving up for traveling this summer. (75% off and only $5 shipping!)

1 | 2 | 3 | 4

PS: Big fan of Lauren Merkin bags too

style star: sydney

2011-05-16T21:25:00.009-04:00

Style blogger Sydney, from the Daybook, is too cute. I love all of her outfits, but especially this one! I'm going to try to start tucking my silk scarves into skinny waist belts from now on... Also, I'm seriously considering bangs too. Geesh, such a trendsetter, this lady. :)

reading period

2011-05-15T13:15:00.009-04:00

This print by Eline van den Broeck is so awesome. And it also describes my current state of restless reading/studying. (My very last college final exam is tomorrow!) Later tonight, I'm heading over to my friend Danny's graduation party... so I guess I better get back to reading! Hope you're having a lovely Sunday. xoxo

(Thanks to Kate for the intro.)

$150 perricone md skin care giveaway!!

2011-05-13T15:09:00.023-04:00

Happy Friday! Blogger wasn't working yesterday, and I was getting super antsy because I couldn't wait to tell you about our newest giveaway! The kind people over at Perricone MD are offering a $150 shopping spree to one lucky Helen Hearts reader. Since I work so closely with the beauty industry, I'm especially excited to partner with a company that delivers some of the best skin care products for women.

If you don't already know this about me -- I'm a little bit obsessed with skin care and not looking older. (Go away crow's feet!) Perricone's Cold Plasma anti-aging cream and Vitamin C Ester eye cream sound amazing, and it's pretty cool that celebrities like Uma Thurman and Eva Mendez swear by the brand.

For a chance to win, simply leave a comment with your email address below & follow Helen Hearts (just look for the "Google Friend Connect" on the left). Receive an additional entry each if you tweet or Facebook link this giveaway. Just let me know by leaving additional separate comments. This giveaway is only open to U.S. and Canadian residents. A winner will be chosen via random generator on Wednesday, May 25th. Good luck everyone! xoxo

Update: Our lucky winner is Carrie. Thanks for playing.

forget me knot

2011-05-11T20:08:00.002-04:00

Just got back from dinner at Cafe Habana with my good friend Liz, which was super yum. We had shrimp tacos and Mexican-style grilled corn, and talked about how crazy it is that we're graduating college next week! Gosh, it's been a reflective/nostalgic/ anxious/exciting time.

Randomly, after dinner, we decided to take a walk down Elizabeth Street, which is filled with teeny boutiques and cute restaurants. On a whim, we stopped by Erica Weiner Jewelry... and ended up walking out with matching yellow-gold Knot Nesting rings!!! Yes, you could say we got friendship rings haha!

But on a more serious note, I think they're rather symbolic of this special time in our lives. As we graduate, start our careers, and enter into "real adulthood," I hope we won't forget how far we've come and how much we've learned. I hope this ring will be daily reminder of our own growth. Do you have jewelry that serves a similar purpose?

(Photo via Erica Weiner)

Update: Blogger was having some technical issues, and deleted some comments of your comments on this post! Sorry my dears!

street treasure

2011-05-10T19:15:00.006-04:00

I am on a lucky streak with finding furniture these days! Last Saturday, I picked up a gorgeous & buttery soft yellow leather chair outside of a shop just a few blocks from where I live. (My favorite color too!) And last night, I snapped up a funky brown lamp just a block from my apartment.

I'm completely content with gently used furniture (I love antiques) but I know a few of my friends are squeamish at the thought. What's your opinion on thrifting? Over the years, I've collected a few "street treasures"-- mostly framed screen prints -- from the West Village and Soho, and I have really grown fond of them.

kimono

2011-05-09T13:15:00.004-04:00

I love the effortless chic that a kimono-inspired print gives to an outfit. My roommate from this past summer (when I subletted in the West Village) owned an authentic kimono robe, and it was so luscious. Too bad you can't wear a house robe outside. (Or can you?)

PS: Happy belated Mother's day!

(Jacket and dress from Zara)